Opposites attract;

I always hate getting into the situation of having to decline someone. I wouldn't say I'm a pushover, but when it comes to the opposite sex I never get a lot of attention so when I do I don't want to throw it away or sound picky or rather frigid. BUT whatever you do don't accept just because you want to please them if your heart is not really in it, it just makes it trickier later. Make up your mind, either yes or no. The don'ts; Never ever say I'll think about it and then never respond. Never say no and then explain because you fancy someone else(and say their name). And never say yes and then not turn up to the first date that's just being mean.